Happy new year to all my beautiful wanderers! New Year’s Eve on my ship was absolutely amazing! I had such a fantastic time. Some of the spa girls and I all went out onto Lido deck for the countdown and the cruise director yelled in the microphone “oooh here comes the Steiners” and then invited us up onto the platform in the middle of the entire crowd where we danced, drank, and rang in 2015!
Christmas, on the other hand, was incredibly tough. It didn’t feel like Christmas since I had to work all day & was missing my family terribly, but luckily it went by fairly fast. Now the holidays are over and life on the ship feels like normal. Ship life is starting to feel more and more like I’m in the right place. I used to ask myself everyday what I was doing and why I was here, and now I feel like I’m doing the right thing for myself and my future. Everybody told me that it would take about 3 months for everything to feel natural and that’s exactly what it took. Granted, I still miss my family and this place will never truly feel like home, I’m still happy and having a good time!
The new ship has been an adjustment for sure. The people are phenomenal! I love how everybody is from different places around word! My roommate is from England, and my fitness colleague is from Serbia. The ship itself is not as nice as my last, but the rockin’ people make up for it! We will be dry docking in March, which means they will no longer be doing cruises for 3 weeks while they do some renovations to the ship. More importantly, this means I can possibly and most likely be transferred AGAIN! I would not mind at all if I got another ship. That would be 3 months for 3 different ships in my first contract. That’s more than most people see in 2 contracts!
I’ve been thinking more and more about if I will want to come back for another contract, I’ve been on the fence since I’ve started and now I’m most likely. Obviously there are some things that make ship life incredibly hard, but anything worth having takes some hard work and determination. The good outweighs the bad and I’ve worked way too hard to get here to throw it all away after one contract. Eventually I would love to move up in the company and I’ve even been talking to my manager about applying for a spa manager position. For now I’m still just along for the ride, letting Steiner take me wherever they wish and trying to adapt to each new ship.
I’m over a third of the way done, and the last month has flown by since I have been getting to see my parents every embarkation! My home port is in the same area where my parents live which has been an absolute life saver! This week I got to bring them on the ship for the day with a guest pass so they got to see where I work, sleep, eat, play and live!
I know that a lot of people have had bad experiences with Steiner but I’ve said from the beginning that this job is whatever one makes of it. I have been striving to make the best of every situation and working incredibly hard to succeed and improve my skills. Needless to say, my experience thus far has been incredible!
I will leave you with a quote that has gotten me through the past couple weeks:
“You don’t have to be the best; you just have to do your best. You know what that is and you are accountable for holding yourself to that standard.”
-Cameron Diaz “The Body Book.”
I read this and instantly thought of myself and how easy it is to get unmotivated and discouraged in this job. Trying to be THE best rather than just focusing on trying YOUR best can be toxic! Ever since I incorporated this mentality into my work I have been far less stressed, more motivated and focused because it’s true — it is my responsibility to do my best, only I know what I’m capable of and I intend to work up to my full potential, and I challenge everybody who is reading this and considering working for this company to do the same. I guarantee you will succeed with this mindset.
Ciao baby!